Patrick, now 25 years old, was diagnosed moderate Autism at the age of 18 months. We did not know what was in store for us, this was new to us. I was happy to find an answer to why his communication was lacking, why his activity level was extremely high and why he did not interact with others. His diagnoses was a step into a journey to help him.
Early intervention is the key to brighten their horizons. Immediately Patrick entered preschool and the process of learning to listen and follow directions which was a challenge. I worried what if he just ran out of the door! I asked for help, I asked to help and I placed my hands on all information that I could. What is the goal? I knew he had to survive this world, to become an adult and to live on his own one day.
With schooling in place I then had to find his interests, another key. Patrick started violin lessons at the age of five and followed my piano, chorus and band at school. Slowly Patrick was into a regular classroom by third grade. Patrick was known now, for his autism and for his musical abilities but still did not have any friends.
As a parent it was not easy but had to be strong for his future. Patrick has earned a 2 year degree in Architecture is now completing his second 2 year degree now is Pharmaceutical Technologies next month! I was never able to complete college and he now has surpassed me!!
Patrick is getting married this June! Patrick is a wonderful man, honest, trustworthy, devoted and willing. I am excited to see what else Patrick has in store in his future. Goals met and still being met. Goals to be independent, smart and able to handle to world. With the help of a teachers, church and my unwillingness to stop trying, everything became possible for Patrick. Autism does not mean a down hill life it opens doors that I never thought imaginable. All things are possible even with Autism!
Bailey, NC