I am a firm believer that every person and every event has a purpose in life. I also believe that those with disabilities are not necessarily disabled. No matter how unfortunate an occurrence may seem there is always a way to overcome one's limits. And so it is with me, an insightful and caring individual who is always striving to reach new goals as an individual with Autism. I used to be shy, unsociable and easily frustrated. I preferred to be by myself rather than dealing with other people. I couldn't handle loud or sudden noises, couldn't bear to hug my mom and was extremely hyperactive. I absolutely needed routine and screamed my head off when life went differently. My parents didn't think I would excel in school, go to college or get a high-level job. Today I am taking three college classes and am working towards a degree as a chef. I am also employed by KU dining services in Lawrence, Kansas and participate in Special Olympics. I like to socialize, make new friends and share my perspective on life. I can stand loud noises and changes in routine and my hyperactivity has decreased dramatically. I couldn't have done any of this without proper support from others and the desire to change.
What does it mean to be disabled? Does it mean that someone has trouble walking? No. Does it mean that someone is cognitively impaired? No. Does it mean someone who has trouble learning or trouble speaking? No! A disability is not an impediment or a hindrance that can be diagnosed by labels like Epilepsy or Autism. It is not those with hindrances, but those who don't want to and don't try to overcome them that are, in essence, disabled.
We all have something to give to the world. And so it is with me, the person, the man who has overcome not-so-great expectations.
Lawrence, KS
