I always knew my son was different from other children. As a single mother, I sometimes felt overbearing and irrational by telling people that they had to approach him differently. The worst was explaining to his father who came into his life after 7 years, that he couldn't discipline him, or even talk to him like any other child he had been around. Most of the time, teachers, daycare providers, scout leaders, and even his own father never listened. This caused more outbursts.
Finally, at age 9, he was diagnosed with autism. Being able to pinpoint what makes him unique has helped others understand more effectively. He has asked what it means. I simply explain that his mind works at a different rate and rationalizes different than others.
Since his interests include rules, guidelines, moral stability, he has thrived in scouts. The structure keeps him on point. Much less outbursts...and much more fun since he has gained confidence. He sells the most popcorn and always wins the pinewood derby race with the car he engineered with his brilliant mind.
He will be recognized tomorrow by our local United Way as a success story in scouting. His face will be represented in the community in such a positive manner.
This child opened my eyes to look at the world just a little different. I will never take advantage of a simple weather cloud, or an amazing sunset. Because he points out the types of clouds and the reasons there are different colors in the sunset. I love him for his quirky ways and brilliant mind.
Salina, KS